You know how when you say to yourself that “things can’t get any worse” and almost instantly you hit lower than where you were formerly at? Well that’s exactly what happened to me this weekend.  The crazy weather has definitely made my life more interesting. I spent Friday night with my whom I call my “work mom” and her daughter at my house. It was a great night filled with sushi, wine, a scary movie and awesome company. After they left I fell asleep on the couch with my two dogs. Around 2:30 am my almost 4 year old dog Zeus woke me up because of an insane thunderstorm. The lightening was pretty intense. It almost seem like someone was taking a million pictures with a super strong flash 30 times per second. I got up to give the dogs water and then fell back asleep on the couch. Ten minutes later my puppy wakes me up because I hear her running around in water. I was confused for a second. I thought my puppy who I call “Daisy the Destroyer” was playing in her pee since we are having some serious potty issues. I turn on the lamp and I see water rushing in from everywhere. I started to panic and put the dogs in the bath tub and looked for towels to cover the doorways. I began to cry like a little girl as I ran around disconnecting all the electronics and throwing as much stuff as I could on the tables and bed. I tried calling my parents, but it is impossible to get in touch with them, so I called my aunt.

By that time the water was half way up my calves it smelled like it was burning. So I rushed out, or at least I tried, carrying my puppy and pulling my 67lbs dog out of the apartment. All I can think about was the water rushing in through the back door and the closet. I cried as I regretted canceling my home insurance to keep up with other bills. I freaked out how much the damage would cost me and the difficulty of getting the money for it. I cried as I dragged my scared dogs out of the house for being too busy to hold a relationship. At least I would I have some type of emotional support if someone was sleeping there with me.

I called 911 because of the burning smell. I wanted to at least avoid having the building catch on fire. I waited 15 minutes for the fire men to come so they can only tell me that they were sorry. My aunt made it to my house a few minutes after the fire men left. I ran outside with my dogs; the water was almost up to my knees out in the parking lot. As we drove to my aunt’s house it look like we were driving through a lake. Cars were stopped everywhere. Water was rushing in from everywhere and swirling around. It was pretty insane.

The next morning my uncle drove me back home. All the streets were back to normal as if nothing had happened. The Desplaines River though looked like it wanted to burst out of its bank again. As I drove through the parking lot where my condo was located people were cleaning out their houses. 9 other units reported damage due to the floods before me. The main reason was because the drains were clogged with debris. The person who runs the maintenance on all the buildings in the area answered me in a very frustrated and angry tone when I came to report the damage.

I feel that living in a condo where I must pay monthly assessments makes the association liable for the damages since they are responsible for all maintenance outside of the buildings, but I kept my mouth shut as they advised that nothing could be done until Monday, which by the way it is now Tuesday and nothing has been done yet.

So my question is, should I begin to clean and start the repairs to avoid further damage to my home or should I wait until the association gets its act together to assess the damage? Should I increase my debt to start the repairs or should I attempt to fundraise to help not only myself, but all the families affected in this small area. Never in my wildest nightmares did I ever think that life would have so many obstacles. I hope that as I continue to push through life will begin to get a little easier.

 
 
If you took a look at my events page for the month of July you would have seen that on Sunday July 17 was the Fiesta in the Park at Arlington Park racecourse. First I have to say that the weather could not have been anymore hotter. I think I lost the 25lbs that I gained the last three years. The fierce weather though did not stop the party. My family and I joined tons of other people to celebrate the Latino heritage. As mentioned in the events page, tickets were only  $5 a piece if bought online. You were also able to bring coolers and picnic out at the park to get away from the inflated prices of the parks goodies.

The park opened at 11:15 am with the opening attraction of a petting zoo and pony rides, which lasted until 4:30pm. Every 30 minutes thereafter was filled with non-stop entertainment which included face painting, Los 5 Magnificos de la Quebradita Dance Group, Mariachi Perla de Mexico, Ballet Folklorico Huehuecoyotl, presentation of the Chicago Fire Soccer club, Angel Melendez and the 911 Mambo Band, and of course Thorough Bred Horse Racing and Jockey Autograph Session. In addition, all sponsors of the event set up tents and gave away numerous prizes such as an ipod, a National Mexican soccer jersey, and a quincanera package worth $45,000.

In addition, apart from all the Latino Entertainment, the best part was the mixture of people that were enjoying the festival. It always nice to see a little snippet of what America represents, which is a mixture of people enjoying and learning about different cultures.

Also, one of the sponsors was of course my ALPFA peeps supporting the Latino community and spreading the word on their mission to build Latino business leaders. Therefore, the event was not only to go out and have fun with the family, but also to do a little bit of networking. I took pictures of the event, but unfortunately I am having trouble downloading them. Be sure to join us next year though to see for yourself how great this event is
 
 
I’m a little disappointed this week because I wanted to visit the Mexican Art Museum and share my experience with you along with some pictures. Unfortunately, I did not have enough time. Therefore I will share my experience of the Cowalunga Bike Tour because I am currently training for it.

The Cowalunga Bike Tour is a three day event. The first day, which is the only day my aunt and I decided to participate in last year, is 65 miles. It starts at Gurnee Mills where you collect a goodie bag, take pictures, and hydrate while you eat fruit. You then bike all the way to gorgeous Lake Geneva where a small beach, dinner, massage therapists, medals, and other treats await you. The other two days are about the same distance. The second day riders travel to Whitewater and the third day riders bike further up Wisconsin to Camp Manikani in Hubertus. The purpose of the tour is to raise money is to “promote healthy lungs and fight lung disease through research, advocacy, and education” as the Cowalunga website states.  The reason that I ride is because my mom has a number of issues with her lungs due to her asthma and severe allergies.  

The first day of the tour has a few tough hills you have to fight through, but also has some awesome scenery. Also, from what I remember the first day has two rest stops where you can find healthy snacks to fuel up and one water stop. Also, on the first day you bike through Twin Lakes where you can stop and eat lunch if you like. There are also vehicles that drive around to make sure all riders are ok.

This year our team, Xicano riders, will have four members instead of two. We train every weekend since our lives are usually two busy during the week. This Saturday our group decided to ride down the North Branch Bicycle Trail and I have to say that it is now my favorite trail since it has great scenery, various sized hills, and mile markers to track your distance.  

Information on the bike tour can be found on the August events page. Also, if you would like to help us fundraise for this event please visit the donation page.  

 
 
Giving back to our community in my opinion should be a part of our daily lives. If we want our community to become better educated, healthier, and safer we have to find ways to help, whether it’s by volunteering your time or donating money. If something is done at least once a month by every capable person in our community we would be so much better off. It’s understandable that some can give more than others due to personal situations, but every little bit helps. 

Recently I decided to volunteer to help put together the leadership summit for ALPFA. In thinking who we can invite to be our keynote speaker I began to Google celebrities that have dedicated their time to charity since the Chicago Foundation for Women invited America Ferrera to their annual luncheon. The first name to pop up was Eva Longoria and from then on I could not stop reading about her. 

As many of you well know, Eva Longoria stars as “Gabrielle Solis” on Desperate Housewives, a show that I have actually never watched. Apart from being an actress she has received numerous awards for her philanthropic efforts. Below are just SOME of the awards that she has won. 

- National Hispanic Foundation of the Art's Horizon Award
- Latina Visionary and Community Empowerment Award
- 2006 NHLI Mujer/Chair Award
- Corazones Unidos Award
- Hope of Los Angeles Award
- Cesar Chavez Legacy Award
- Leadership Award presented by the Latino Leaders
- The Community Service Award presented by the Mexican American Legal Defense Education Fund

Some of her philanthropic efforts are:

- Donating a house to one of the victims of Katrina through Oprah's Angel Network
- Donating her whole one episode salary of Desperate Housewives to Oprah's tv show the Big Give
- Serves as a national spokesperson for Padres Contra el Cancer
- Founded Eva's Heroes
- Hosts and produces the National Council of La Raza ALMA awards on NBC
- Has taken an active role in Make-A-Wish Foundation
- Is a strong supporter of the Ovarian Cancer Research Fund and is involved with the Entertainment Industry Foundation/Callaway Golf Foundation
- Signs shoes for the Spirit of Women Red Shoe Celebrity Auction
-Volunteered time to George Lopez's "Help Haiti" Fundraiser

Eva Longoria is not someone I would have imagined to be so involved with the community for some reason. It is pretty motivating to know that there are well known Latinos helping out. Obviously donating a salary or a house is probably not possible for many of us as we try to maintain or acquire are own homes and salaries, but as we continue to strive for education and advancement it may be possible down the road. In addition, donating a bit of your time a few times a year is a lot more than most. So next time you are planning out your week or are bored at home look into the following organizations in the city to help out. 


Instituto Progreso Latino – http://www.idpl.org/idpl_volunteer.html


Mano a Mano – http://www.manoamanofamilyresourcecenter.org/volunteer-for-mano-a-mano.html


Latino Education Alliance- http://www.latinoeducationalliance.org/contact.php


U.S. Hispanic Leadership Institute - http://www.ushli.org/civic/index.php


Casa Central - http://www.casacentral.org/makedifference/volunteer


Illinois Coalition for Immigrant and Refugee Rights -
http://icirr.org/en/node/2600




 

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